September 17th-20th · Bethel, Maine
A weekend to slow down, reconnect, and breathe.
Here We Are’s next retreat is set along the Androscoggin River, ready for kayaking, evening campfires, and coming home with more clarity and connection.
Limited to 14 participants. Early bird pricing is $795 through May 31st and includes 3 nights of lodging, meals, and guided workshops.
Sept. 17th-20th
Welcome the fall season in the state known for leaf peeping.
Bethel, Maine
Riverside house along Androscoggin. Transportation not included
Capacity: 14 Men
Everyone gets their own bed! Shared bedrooms and bathrooms.
Price: $795
Standard rate: $895 after May 31st
Payment plans available
Who this retreat is for
Here We Are is built for men who are moving through their lives but feel something is missing. Whether you’re stretched thin, disconnected from yourself, or stuck in a mode of constant performance. You don’t need prior retreat experience, most of our participants are joining for the first time.
You might be a fit if you…
- Feel like you’re performing more than you’re living.
- Want real conversations with other men, not small talk…
- Crave time in nature with space to actually slow down
- Are ready to show up honestly, not perfectly
What your retreat fee includes
Each Here We Are retreat is designed to help men slow down, reconnect, and return to what matters. Everything below is included in the retreat fee.
3 Nights Lodging
Private riverside house in Maine with shared common spaces, bedrooms, and waterfront access for the full weekend.
Shared Meals
All meals and snacks provided throughout including 6 family style meals (3 breakfasts, 1 lunch, 2 dinners) shared around a table, unhurried.
Guided Sessions
Facilitated workshops, journaling prompts, and structured group conversations led by the Here We Are team with guest facilitators.
Outdoor Time
Kayaking, nature photography walks, campfires — movement and nature that complement the deeper work.
Views of the Venue
How the weekend flows
The retreat is designed to let you connect with others coming from all walks of life and leave the last day having found camaraderie from once strangers. It’s structured enough to feel intentional, spacious enough to feel restful.
Connection
Upon arrival we settle in and get together for what can be referred to as hyper-charged ice-breakers. Everyone is coming from somewhere different and we spend time getting on the same page, starting with the simple things, like learning one another’s names.
Intention
The itinerary throughout the weekend consists of guided meditations, journaling practices and unique guest facilitator workshops ranging from full group to ‘choose your own adventure’, experiences.
Play
There is deliberate free time throughout the weekend. The space we stay plays as much of a part as the workshops do and we want to give you the opportunity to experience it on your terms.
Your Guest Facilitators
Along with journaling and meditation workshops lead by Josh, the guest facilitators will lead workshops on nature photography/videography, musical expression and storytelling.
John Neely
Harvard Art Museums Videographer
Leading nature photography hikes and fly fishing instruction
Eric Lopez
Finance and Strategy Leader
Demonstrating the power of music as a form of communication
What men said after the first retreat
Unedited reflections from participants of the inaugural Here We Are retreat.
“The main takeaway was recognizing how far I’ve come in my journey. I’ve done so much internal work over the past few years, and sharing during the sessions reminded me of the transformation I’ve already been through.”
— Richard L.
“Since we left the retreat, I have journaled 14 pages in a full size Moleskine. This weekend really jump-started a lot of reflection.”
— Andrew O.
“Wheels are spinning, heart is growing, and immensely grateful. Huge props for lighting a spark.”
— Chris D.
“The house was awesome, but more than anything it was meeting everyone and the conversations we shared.”
— Eric L.
FAQs
A few things people usually want to know before joining.
Who is this retreat for?
This retreat is for men looking for community, more confidence in themselves, and more space for play, reflection, and connection.
What does the application process look like?
Once you’ve submitted your application, we’ll set up a brief call — it’s a vibe check for both of us. If it’s a good fit, we’ll move forward with a deposit to secure your spot.
What’s included?
Retreats include lodging, meals, facilitated workshops, and shared group experiences throughout the weekend.
What’s not included?
Transportation is not provided. The selected participants will meet for a pre-retreat call where carpool coordination can be discussed.
Do I need prior retreat experience?
No. Most of our participants are joining a retreat for the first time.
Is this a religious retreat?
No. We welcome men of all backgrounds and do not focus on any religious views.
How much does it cost?
Pricing starts at $795 for early bird pricing through May 31st. Applications received after May 31st will be at the standard rate of $895. The fee covers 3 nights lodging, all meals, and every facilitated session.
How many spots are available?
This retreat is capped at 14 participants to keep the group small and intentional.
Ready to apply for the Fall retreat?
Spots are limited and the application helps us keep the group intentional. Submit your application or contact us to ask any questions you have.
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