What happens at Here We Are
Here We Are creates small-group retreats for men who want space to slow down, reflect honestly, and reconnect with what matters. The experience blends conversation, nature, rest, and real community in a setting designed to feel both grounded and transformative.
Who it’s for
For men who are seeking like-minded people but feel stretched thin, disconnected, or stuck in constant performance mode.
What you’ll experience
Guided conversation, time outdoors, reflection, shared meals, rest, and a small-group setting built for honesty and connection.
What you’ll leave with
Greater clarity, deeper connection to yourself and others, and practices you can bring back into daily life.
Featured Facilitators
A few of the people who have led sessions at Here We Are. Every retreat brings in new guests, and the winter lineup is still being built.
Matt Ciccone
Experiential Community Builder
Led our midway check-in, giving every man room to say how the weekend, and life in general, was really landing.
Eric Lopez
Finance & Strategy Manager
Uses music as a lens for communication and connection, creating space for reflection, expression, and deeper listening.
Richard Lee
Keynote Speaker & Connection Coach
Author, consultant, and certified coach helping people build more meaningful relationships through honest communication.
What the retreats include
Each Here We Are retreat is designed to help men slow down, reconnect, and return to what matters.
Connection
Small-group conversation, shared meals, and honest experiences that build trust, presence, and meaningful relationships.
Intention
Workshops, journaling, and guided reflection that help participants slow down, notice what matters, and move forward with greater clarity.
Play
Time outdoors, movement, challenge, and moments of lightness that create space for joy, reset, and perspective.
Reflections from our retreats
Two retreats in, most of the second group were men coming back from the first.
“I thought it would be a lot more sitting around talking about our feelings. It’s kind of like, no, we’re actually doing activities with each other and the feelings just come out that way.”
Andrew O., Fall Forward
“The main takeaway was recognizing how far I’ve come in my journey. I’ve done so much internal work over the past few years, and sharing during the sessions reminded me of the transformation I’ve already been through. I used to struggle with not feeling good enough or like I fit in, but now I can see how different my life feels.”
Richard L., Sunday River
“I’m carrying that we’re all sharing similar insecurities, questions, and doubts, and we’re not alone in our experience.”
Eric L., Fall Forward
The Next Retreat
Winter 2027
We’re heading back into the snow. Same small group, same long weekend, a new setting and a new crew of guest facilitators. Dates and venue drop soon, and the waitlist hears first.
- Winter 2027, location announced soon
- Four days, three nights
- A small group, kept intentionally intimate
- Snow days, guided sessions, shared meals, and nights by the fire
FAQs
A few things people usually want to know before joining.
Who is this retreat for?
This retreat is for men looking for community, more confidence in themselves, and more space for play, reflection, and connection.
What does the application process look like?
Join the waitlist and you’ll hear first when dates open. From there it’s a short application and a quick call, a vibe check for both of us, then a deposit to hold your spot.
What’s included?
Retreats include lodging, meals, facilitated workshops, and shared group experiences throughout the weekend.
Do I need prior retreat experience?
No. Most of our participants are joining a retreat for the first time.
How many spots are available?
Each retreat is kept small, usually 10 to 14 men, so everyone actually gets to know each other.